The whole point of Freeforming is the expanded state of consciousness that arises from successfully meeting and staying with our partner(s). I believe it is within this larger awareness that we access those unrealised aspects of ourselves that are freed by the practice. Here is an excellent article by Tronick who coined the term dyadically expanded states of consciousness –
http://www.changeprocess.org/articles/11772095.pdf

Peri Mackintosh